Start Before You are "Ready"

Have you ever wanted to go after something just for yourself, but kept saying, "It's not the right time"? This feeling is very common. Timing can be important in many areas of life, and I understand that. But think about the idea that the change you want might just need you to stop and notice what’s around you or take a moment to slow down in our busy lives. I believe we often put off things that might not matter much to others, especially when they are meant just for our own happiness.

Ignoring your own needs can slowly turn into a feeling of restlessness. You might notice it as an internal buzz or a nagging sense of unease. It shows up in your thoughts, feelings, and even in your body. Your mind might race, jumping from one idea to another, while your body feels jittery, making it hard to sit still. Even if everything seems fine on the outside, you might still feel that nagging dissatisfaction or impatience. Concentration becomes tough, and you catch yourself daydreaming about what comes next instead of enjoying the moment. There's this constant craving for something different—whether it's a new adventure, a solution to a problem, or just a break from the discomfort.

Seeking solutions outside oneself is often a temporary remedy that cannot satisfy those feelings in the long run. True calmness, awareness, and clarity are found within yourself.

"Your vision will become clear only when you look into

your own heart. Who looks outside dreams; who looks

inside, awakes." - Carl Jung

Making time for yourself demands intentionality and a commitment to maintaining a routine, incorporating small changes into your daily life just for your own benefit. Start with your basic willingness to begin even if you don't feel "ready".